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Agradecer más allá de                   THE MAGIC                     growth, purpose in life, and self-acceptan-
          ser un acto de cortesía                 OF GRATITUDE                  ce.  In  general  studies  show  that  grateful
                                                                                people  have  less  negative  thinking,  which
                                                  They  say  that  from  the  best  questions
          y buena educación es                 come  the  key  answers  that  determine  the   translates into a person who interacts in so-
          un imán para atraer                  truth, and there is one that will make you   ciety with greater optimism, resilience and
          grandes bendiciones                  understand everything you experience and   personal magnetism, which translates into:
                                                                                Happiness.
          en nuestras vidas                    your place in life: Is the universe friendly?
                                               The answer determines your life. Many see
                                               blessings where others see ordinariness, the-  Cultivating gratitude requires discipline
          de  experimentar  la  gratitud  con  aquello   re are those who even in the midst of chaos   and a "good memory" to remember all tho-
          que  ya  hemos  alcanzado  ,  sino  también   can identify the hidden good that exists in   se who have directly or indirectly procured
          con todo lo que anhelamos, y esa parte de   the  evidence  although  in  appearance  are   a  good  for  us.  Consistency  in  appreciating
          la  gratitud  es  una  de  las  más  poderosas,   completely negative and others continually   every detail we experience. Although there
          anticiparnos en emoción y sentimiento a   think and feel as if everything and everyone   are  many  emotions  and  personality  traits
          aquello que queremos manifestar en nues-  is against them, and here is the central pre-  that  are  important  for  well-being,  there  is
          tras vidas, en el arte de la manifestación la   mise: To be able to identify if you act as a   evidence that gratitude can be of exceptio-
          gratitud es una piedra angular, no en vano   "victim" or feel "creator" of the life you dream   nal importance.
          la mayoría de las religiones contempla la   and deserve. Throughout life we go throu-
          gratitud y acciones de gracia como centro   gh the process of socialization responding to   That we have Gratitude costs little and
          de  Fe  y  esperanza.  Y  estudios  científicos   conscious  and  unconscious  programs  that   is worth so much... I propose something: To-
          cada día avalan más el impacto positivo de   we  can  wisely  identify.  Many  of  our  fears   day  think  of  all  the  things,  situations  and
          la fe y la gratitud en la vida de los seres   and limiting beliefs do not belong to us, they   people for which you can be grateful, I as-
          humanos.                             have been the result of indirect repetitions of   sure you that while you do it there is a smi-
            El impacto de la gratitud en el bienes-  those around us or consequence of critical   le on your lips and your eyes light up. Start
          tar de los seres humanos ha sido estudia-  situations  that  as  events  have  marked  us   with thanking everyone for that which you
          do a partir de la psicología positiva, que   and have remained engraved in our being.   take for granted as if it corresponds to you
          resalta Las personas agradecidas también   There are studies that even reveal in the li-  naturally,  kindness,  gentleness,  affection,
          tienen mayores niveles de control de sus   ght of psychology that we may have mental   friendship, opportunities... And if you want
          circunstancias, crecimiento personal, pro-  programs from our parents even prior to our   to go further, say thank you in advance and
          pósito en la vida, y aceptación de uno mis-  conception. The good news is that all these   experience the feeling of well-being for what
          mo.  En  general  estudios  demuestran  que   programs  that  we  can  identify  as  limiting   you hope to achieve and you will see how the
          las  personas  agradecidas  tienen  menos   beliefs or blocks can be transformed by ma-  magic is activated.
          pensamiento negativos, lo que se traduce   king them conscious and working on them.
          en  una  persona  que  interactúa  en  socie-  Here is the value of gratitude as a tool for
          dad  con  mayor  optimismo,  resiliencia  y   transformation.  One  of  the  first  powerful
          magnetismo  personal,  lo  que  se  traduce   words we learn in language is Thank You,
          en: Felicidad.                       and how much content it has. Thanking be-
            Cultivar la gratitud requiere disciplina   yond being an act of courtesy and a sign of
          y “buena memoria” para recordar a todos   good manners is a magnet to attract great
          aquellos que han procurado un bien para   blessings in our lives. By definition Gratitu-
          nosotros  de  forma  directa  o  indirecta.   de is a feeling, emotion or attitude of recog-
          Constancia en la apreciación de cada deta-  nition of a benefit received or to be received.
          lle que experimentamos. Aunque hay mu-
          chas emociones y rasgos de la personali-  And how magical it is to know that not
          dad que son importantes para el bienestar,   only can we experience gratitude with what
          hay evidencias de que la gratitud puede ser   we  have  already  achieved,  but  also  with
          de una importancia excepcional.      everything we long for, and that part of gra-
            Que  tengamos  Gratitud  cuesta  poco   titude is one of the most powerful, anticipate
          y  vale  tanto… Te propongo algo: Hoy   in emotion and feeling to what we want to
          piensa  en  todas  las  cosas,  situaciones  y   manifest in our lives, in the art of manifes-
          personas por las cuales puedes estar agra-  tation gratitude is a cornerstone, not in vain
          decido, te aseguro que mientras lo haces   most  religions  contemplate  gratitude  and
          hay una sonrisa en tus labios y tus ojos se   actions of grace as a center of faith and hope.
          iluminan. Comienza con darle las gracias   And  scientific  studies  increasingly  support
          a todos por eso que das por hecho como   the positive impact of faith and gratitude in
          si  te  correspondiera  de  manera  natural,   the lives of human beings.
          la amabilidad,  la dulzura, el cariño, la
          amistad,  las  oportunidades…  Y  si  quie-  The  impact  of  gratitude  on  the  we-
          res ir más allá da las gracias anticipadas   ll-being of human beings has been studied
          y  experimenta  la  sensación  de  bienestar   from positive psychology, which highlights
          por aquello que esperas conseguir y verás   that grateful people also have higher levels
          como se activa la magia.             of control of their circumstances, personal
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